A couple from the ward came for a short visit on Sunday night last week. He's had cancer a couple of times and helps facilitate support groups, so it was good to talk with someone who really KNOWS what Rory and I are going through. Very well-meaning people often say they are willing to help, are hoping and praying for the best. All of that is very much appreciated, while at the same time it's different to talk with someone who has lived through, or is currently living through, the same thing.
Rory's trial of not using Metformin continued this week. The doctor prefers for her to not be on that medication, but only if the nausea remains under control. Although her blood glucose numbers went up, the fact that she didn't experience nausea was exciting for the doctor! So, we'll be re-tweaking her insulin again to find the right balance, now that Metformin is out of the rotation. We also dropped Glipizde at his instruction.
Tuesday was Rory's next oncology appointment. It was good that we had blood results to use during that appointment, and having those tests already completed will become our regular approach for future appointments. Regarding those 300-level results, the doctor said he was not alarmed. In fact, because they have been at 300-ish for several tests in a row, he said that's enough evidence that the chemo is functioning that he wants to remain on the essentially the same dosage and schedule. As some symptoms towards the end of Week 2 (which this one was) sometimes get more difficult, she has the OK to reduce the daily amount from 6 pills to 5 on a day-to-day basis. However, we haven't found that her symptoms have reduced during her entire WEEK OFF, so we're not so sure that dropping one pill for a few days will make a noticeable difference. We'll just have to wait and see on that.
We did try to have the discussion about the extremes of making a decision to drop chemo altogether or moving to a new drug. He agreed that dropping chemo completely would likely mean life expectancy measured in weeks, but without any of the chemo side effects. The other extreme would be moving to another completely new chemo, and he thought the next candidate would be administered via IV again. However, unlike the very first round 8 years ago, this one would be given once every week or maybe even every-other week, and the "typical" side effects might actually be less severe than what she's going through now. If that's truly the case, then it seems the drug must be less effective than her current regimen; otherwise, that's what she would be on right now. Also, because of her blood thinners they would probably have to surgically install a port again rather than trying to do a traditional IV each time. Those two powerful and consequential extremes are additional arguments for staying on the current treatment plan for now.
In later conversations, Rory eventually told me that she's OK with her current quality time each week. Even though she's sleeping and in bed most of the day on most days of the week, the fact that she can attend periodic events is enough for her right now. Wednesday night we attended Fiddler on the Roof, and Friday she came to a gymnastics meet. That was all she could do this week, but for now that level of quality time is enough for her to continue with the current treatment plan.
Friday we met with the social worker again, specifically to continue conversations with the kids. They had written down some questions and some "wish list" items that he wanted to go over. It was a good conversation, eventually coming around to the difficult questions of remaining time, and how best to prepare. Since each of the kids seems to want to know different levels of detail, and has their own questions, he's planning to meet with each of the kids individually next time.
I think that's about it for this week. We'll keep tweaking, monitoring, and doing the best we can. Thanks to everyone for checking in on her and us!
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